The real problem in modern love relationships is that to find and maintain the right man you need to take care of yourself. When you are single you always have plenty of time to go to the hairdresser, lack your nails and wax your legs, but honestly, once you are with someone… this time magically disappear and thast’s how husbands start seing their wives as totally new objects: hairy, fur-equipped, unrecognizable… and then they leave them for someone -still single- who has the time to make herself up.
The same happends for me with writing, I am so much more an intellectual individual when I am single and I have time to read and think, than when I am in a relationship… also because writing is my cure, so a big writing period comes always in between two relationships… guess in which am I now?
PS you don’t take me seriously regarding the hair and the wax right?!